After years of trying dozens of others
I found one that works! Recurring, snoozeable tasks. The combination of ways the task can recurr and ways you can snooze it fit me like a glove so far. Wish like mad I knew how to back up/restore the data file, for now Ive been taking screenshots so I dont lose the reminder completely in case anything happens. Copying all my recurring reminder stuff from a bunch of different apps and clearing out everything but wake ups from the iphones native alarm clock & task apps, deleting a handful of apps I was trying to decide which to settle for. Ive just had this a couple of days, hoping it keeps working. Waiting for reviews of todays update before installing it.
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Easy Reminders - Push Notifications with Snooze